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« on: July 05, 2007, 09:09:42 PM »
My brother and i were watching some of the ben lee video blogs on his website, and my brother remarked about how he'd be a cool guy to hang out with. He then added that ben folds wouldn't be, because he heard from a girl he's friends with who was working backstage at one of his events at their college that he was very back-offish and was saying things like "get away from me"... now you'd think my brother or this girl were a ben folds haters, but he's a fan of ben's and he said the girl was a huge fan too... it makes me wonder though, because you can't really be too sure? I'm not saying ben's been a jerk since he started his career... i just think it's a possibility he's old and cranky at this point and tired of his job... he even admitted that he doesn't play piano unless he's writing... now i'm sure many of you are thinking "ben was so nice when i met him" but it may have been because you were with many other fans? because when you're in the public eye you need to be nice at the right times..
the same goes for someone like chris martin... so many people are coldplay fans but i've heard stories that he could be a huge jerk. how can someone ensure that ben's truly a good guy? it should be important to an artist to be respectful to his fans, but basically i guess i'm looking for personal experiences with ben, good and bad... please don't be too one sided, i know i'm going to get alot of flack for this topic, but i'm just as much of a ben fan here as anyone else is.