Ben Folds MSN chat - 28th July 2003


Ben_Folds_Live says: hi.
DishDiva says: Let's get started, your fans have loads of questions for you!
Ben_Folds_Live says: bring em on
travrad in Onstage1 asks: What is the song "One Down" about, and when and why was it written?
Ben_Folds_Live says: the song one down i had a deadline
Ben_Folds_Live says: it was a song i wrote for a publishing deadline
Ben_Folds_Live says: they told me i had to write 4.6 songs to finish my contract before i got paid
Ben_Folds_Live says: and so i wrote that one first in my basement.
Ben_Folds_Live says: but it's about bastardizing what you do for money,, to a certain extent
PaleAndHungover in Onstage1 asks: Just got the new EP today.. and if I may ask, who is that on the phone in "Dog", curiousity abounds!
Ben_Folds_Live says: ah, that's my wife frally. she called while i was doing my backup vocal. it's on tape exactly as she rang
Ben_Folds_Live says: i put her on speakerphone when i saw her name pop up on my cell phone.
HerbsDonuts in Onstage1 asks: Do you have a favorite key you write in? How do you go about creating a song... an idea in your head, then to the piano? Or does the piano inform your head?
Ben_Folds_Live says: i have songs in my head, in their 'proper' key and then i get to a piano to pick them out. i find out what key they're in at that point. i rarely concieve a song at the piano.
Ben_Folds_Live says: so often i have to learn to play something it a tough key
Ben_Folds_Live says: i have lots of songs in F# and B. pains in the ass...
chiaotzufreak in Onstage1 asks: Hey Ben, how was the Lottapianos tour hooked up? Are you a Tori fan?
Ben_Folds_Live says: yeah. i love tori amos and i've always cited her as one of the best pop pianists. we've tried to make this tour work out for a couple of years, but timing has always been off. so i'm glad it's happening now.
coh_cam_indie in Onstage1 asks: Ben,you're an amazing writer and put a whole scenario into someones head. Is the new EP anything about your own life expierence or people you've met?
Ben_Folds_Live says: all my writing is about what i know about. it means more to me that way. the songs on this ep were written at different times, and actually,
Ben_Folds_Live says: speedgraphic is full of collaborations with other people, which is unusual for me. but if i can't relate directly to a song, it's hard for me to sing.
Ben_Folds_Live says: the next EP, sunny 16 will be all songs that i've written alone, which is more normal for me.
rutgers2332 in Onstage1 asks: Hey Ben is the phone call in dog how you really answer the phone? its a pretty funny joke
Ben_Folds_Live says: yeah, well, everyone around should know that if they call me in the studio, they could end up on my record
Ben_Folds_Live says: i did that to my father on
Ben_Folds_Live says: i answered,
Ben_Folds_Live says: you there?
Ben_Folds_Live says: because i knew it'd push frally's buttons and she'd say something funny.
missing_the_war in Onstage1 asks: My enitre family are your biggest fans in Oklahoma. We are totally pumped about your concert in Stillwater, and I have been talking it up to all my friends. Are you going to be issueing backstage passes, cause my whole family would love to meet you?
Ben_Folds_Live says: ah, well, the nice thing about being the opening act is that i have no control over anything. haha. so, i'd like to promise you that, but i'm a guest myself
travrad in Onstage1 asks: You recently played "Underground" in CT, you stated you just stopped playing it for awhile. Are their songs you DON'T like to play anymore?
Ben_Folds_Live says: well, it's not that i don't like playing that song, it's just that it has a lot of parts going on at once and i'm alone at a piano. i have so many songs which shine as solo peices so it
Ben_Folds_Live says: doesn't make sense to play underground usually. the crowd there were so kind and such a singing crowd that it made sense.
Ben_Folds_Live says: there are a couple of songs which i don't relate to anymore, so i just don't do em.
Louis_E_B in Onstage1 asks: My name is Louie, and I know your son's name is Louie...why'd you pick the name Louie (it's not that common of a name!)?
Ben_Folds_Live says: i don't know. louis, it is. joe louis maybe? i don't know. i liked the sound of it cause it's an old fashioned name.
Ben_Folds_Live says: i'm not as nuts about new-ish names for kids. i like the old names. his sister's name is gracie. old name.
DishDiva says: Some of your songs, Not the Same, for example, touch on religious and/or spiritual topics. How does religion and/or your own spiritual beliefs effect your music, and moreover, your life as a whole?
Ben_Folds_Live says: well, in a way, i guess it's everything, and at the same time, it's not something i think about much... i don't know. it's a very personal thing and i'm of the school that you
Ben_Folds_Live says: should watch out for any over-organized money based religion. no reason someone should burn in hell for not sending money... or for not being born in the right country.
alleniveko21 in Onstage1 asks: ben i saw you at a show in MA and you called someone on your cell phone while we sang the chorus to dream on, was that your wife too?
Ben_Folds_Live says: yeah. haha. i left a message. it sounds creepy on the machine too. like chanting. damn funny. nice work MA
TrollingForNow in Onstage1 asks: I love the music, thanks for all the years of musical enjoyment, (I got here late) will you and Robert and Jessee record together again?
Ben_Folds_Live says: it sounds like some kind of devil (beep), since we're on the subject of religion.
Ken_sears371 in Onstage1 asks: My wife and I were married July 12, and we had the hardest time choosing a wedding song. We finally picked "The Luckiest." Thank you. It was perfect.
Ben_Folds_Live says: i doubt we will. that time passed and we've all got so many other things to do.
Ben_Folds_Live says: wow. cool. thanks. i'm glad i could be there.
DishDiva says: My wife and I were married July 12, and we had the hardest time choosing a wedding song. We finally picked "The Luckiest." Thank you. It was perfect.
DishDiva says: From an audience member
Ben_Folds_Live says: wow. cool. thanks. i'm glad i could be there.
sarableu in Onstage1 asks: My favorite show of your's in Portland was at the Roseland - do you prefer the smaller venues?
Ben_Folds_Live says: i don't really have a preference. i usually find good things about a place and the people in it. i'm just there.
Ben_Folds_Live says: small is good. big is good. too big sucks, but that's not something i have to deal with often
-not-the-same- in Onstage1 asks: What couldd you say in this chat that would prove to us that you are truly the legendary Ben Folds, and not just some representative? (Be Creative)
Ben_Folds_Live says: be creative. that's a lot of pressure.
Ben_Folds_Live says: that's why i sucked in creative classes in school.
Ben_Folds_Live says: i couldn't do that on call. so, shit, i can't tell you why i'm ben. i'd give you my mother's maiden name,
Ben_Folds_Live says: but then you could get free shit at Band H photo on my account, which would suck for me...
Ben_Folds_Live says: actually, i just stopped going to that place because they wouldn't ship film to my hotel. bastards...
Ben_Folds_Live says: i'm still trying to be creative and nothing's happening.
Ben_Folds_Live says: steam is coming from my ears. still nothing.
DishDiva says: ok, ok, we'll let you off the hook. .
DishDiva says: here's a question which may help
Ben_Folds_Live says: oh thank you jesus
FranTarkington in Onstage1 asks: don't know if this q. already went thru, but can you confirm that you have 10 pairs of the same reddish brown pants?
Ben_Folds_Live says: haha. no. sorry to say i only have one pair.
Ben_Folds_Live says: i had another years ago, which was actually my favorite. the ones i have now are wearing pretty thin,
Ben_Folds_Live says: but i don't tour without them. i never wear them at home. they're my rock pants i guess.
Ben_Folds_Live says: normally at home i wear a lot more pink fuzzy stuff. wigs etc
Ben_Folds_Live says: prance up and down the street at midnight
alleniveko21 in Onstage1 asks: is it hard to play the saem songs day in and day out and still maintain the same emotion and enthusiasm?
Ben_Folds_Live says: it's not really because i'm hearing what i'm doing through the audience's ears
Ben_Folds_Live says: and i can feel that it's not repetitive for the audience. and when it hits that point, i can feel it.
Ben_Folds_Live says: there's always something different at each show and i try to stay loose so something accidental can happen. like,
Ben_Folds_Live says: rock this bitch on the live cd. totally made that up on the spot and now it's on record..
the_not_so_important_ben in Onstage1 asks: BEN- i saw one of your old highschool yearbooks from reynolds high on ebay, doesnt that frighten you?
Ben_Folds_Live says: high school frightens me yeah. high school's a tough period. my picture in that yearbook is pretty damn awful too.
Ben_Folds_Live says: i had taken my only good picture for the yearbook ever that year. and it got messed up.
Ben_Folds_Live says: so they called me to the office on one of my terrible acne days and told me to sit down and have another picture taken. i was bummed.
callender22 in Onstage1 asks: How does Elton feel about your covery of Tiny Dancer?
Ben_Folds_Live says: he said he thought it was disgraceful and a damn shame
Ben_Folds_Live says: actually, no. he said he liked it and was flattered.
DishDiva says: ah, funny guy
DishDiva says: :)
Ben_Folds_Live says: some country singer covered it and made it a hit the next month, so i felt kinda corny about that.
The4thPwrPffGrl in Onstage1 asks: How did you get involved with the Hedwig and the Angry Inch tribute album?
Ben_Folds_Live says: through ben kweller. it was his gig and he just got ben lee and i to help him since we were working on an EP together
Ben_Folds_Live says: this is the year of EP's isn't it?
Ben_Folds_Live says: i will have done 4 EP's, and two full length albums by the year's end.
ModernOpenheartsurgery in Onstage1 asks: Hey, your my hero, but besides that, do you find any particular genre of music to be hideous?
Ben_Folds_Live says: not really. there's usually something real somewhere in a musical genre, then a bunch of people who jump on the bandwagon and give it a bad name.
Ben_Folds_Live says: genres based on one emotion are usually suspicious
DishDiva says: Ben thanks for joining your fans today from around the world to talk about your music and your tour with Tori,
Ben_Folds_Live says: final thoughts... just that i'll have lots of short records coming out this year, with very limited promotion.
Ben_Folds_Live says: more music less talk... check out iTunes music store frequently. i record a song or two and put it there usually.
DishDiva says: Thanks to Ben Folds for joining his fans tonight on MSN Live!
DishDiva says: Thanks also to tonight's awesome team of hosts --Trish, Budd and Josie. You guys are the best there is.
DishDiva says: BTW, to the person who got married and had "luckiest" as your wedding song, let me know
DishDiva says: and I'll put your name up here
DishDiva says: for some reason your name didn't come through with yoru question
DishDiva says: Do you have a comment you would like to get onstage for Ben? Click the submit question button and enter your COMMENT now.
DishDiva says: nickloveskyle:To Nickole, from all of us here at MSN Live, congratulations on your recent wedding. Sorry your name dropped off from the question earlier.
DishDiva says: "Luckiest" was a great song to select for your wedding!
ModernOpenheartsurgery in Onstage1 asks: I have to say that you're my hero, and that I hope you continue to put more new music out there! You're Kick ass!
missing_the_war in Onstage1 asks: Your version of Tiny Dancer is not only better than Tim McGraw, it is even better than Elton John's. You should be world famous and a house hold name
chiaotzufreak in Onstage1 asks: Emaline is the best song, like, ever. I hope to hear it on this tour!!
nickloveskyle in Onstage1 asks: this is nickole, i wanted to let ben know that we played the luckiest for our wedding song at the respetion
CapitalInjustice in Onstage1 asks: Ben, everyone in Albany,NY wants you to come back, will you?
UseYourInsideVoice in Onstage1 asks: Ben, thanks for writing such truthful songs. Ther'ye what give you your loyal fans. If radio played more of your songs. the fans would multiply endlessly.
HerbsDonuts in Onstage1 asks: Ben... you are the man, the myth and the legend. Thank you for all the inspiration and awe...
Windsweptbutt in Onstage1 asks: Thanks you so much for being a cool guy and signing for your few true fans on that 10 degree night @ Lee University this past April!!!
JoeCaparo in Onstage1 asks: Thanks for live "Emaline" and "Selfless, Cold, and Composed." That is all.
teknoturtl in Onstage1 asks: Ben, I just wanted to say that I have loved your music for years, there is nothing else like it! You are my #1 favorite
missing_the_war in Onstage1 asks: Hi Mr. Folds, I know tons of fans that love you here in the Oklahoma, but the closest you have come is Denver, please do a full concert here!!!!!!!!
speedgraphics in Onstage1 asks: Ben man you rock.You are my idol.This is coming from a fellow Ben.
a_pink_moon in Onstage1 asks: i think you should write a song called "Sarah" and dedicate it to me...Sarah. I would promote you even more than I already do (which would be hard to accomplish) but try anyway...much love, me
TimDawks in Onstage1 asks: Ben...you are the rockingest rocker of all time!! Thanks for always knowing what your fans are looking for!
rutgers2332 in Onstage1 asks: Ben I think you are fantastic and so talented and keep it up we love everything you put out!
kohutek in Onstage1 asks: Thanks for the new studio clips on the benfolds.com site! Very cool!
PaleAndHungover in Onstage1 asks: Ben we love you! Cya in Orlando darlin!
AstralChanteuse7 in Onstage4 asks: You have given me many magical moments in my life.
JacksonC_ in Onstage4 asks: Thanks for comming to Nebraska, your the only band I like that does so I've seen you 3 times here
TheMorningBirdSings in Onstage1 asks: Come to Belgium, NOW!
callender22 in Onstage1 asks: Ben FoShizzle, you're my favorite!
JoeCaparo in Onstage1 asks: I have an awesome shrine to all things Ben in my room. It's got two concert T-shirts tacked to the wall with pictures and ticket stubs, along with a signed picture I got on ebay. Be impressed.
iamzloo in Onstage1 asks: You are the reason I play and write music today. Thanks for the inspiration.
Louis_E_B in Onstage1 asks: Ben I can't wait for you to come to Seattle again...you've been awesome the last two times you played there!
gumpylove in Onstage1 asks: Corny as it is, Ben- You and your muisc have changed my life... thanks.
colecrankshaw in Onstage1 asks: ben everyone in kentucky wants you to come here
RzezFoldsFanatica in Onstage1 asks: Hey Ben! I've been a huge fan of yours for many years now and I want to thank you for all of your wonderful music! You've gotten me through many hard times!
bobasfeet in Onstage1 asks: Ben your song "Smoke" brought my wife and I back together.Thanks!
a_pink_moon in Onstage1 asks: you need to come to nashville again soon and play an all ages show...or at least 18+ you would get soo many people..we love you here!
Ben-Chuck in Onstage1 asks: Ben, I want to see you play your Key-tar that you mentioned on VH1...please play it in MD when you come in August!! Thanks, Benfoldsluva
missing_the_war in Onstage1 asks: I learned to play the piano just so I could play your music. It is an inspiriation.
djoshbraun in Onstage1 asks: and thanks for all your music - you say all the things we can't put into words...
JoeCaparo in Onstage1 asks: Leave more notes on the .com.
allthestarsupinthesky in Onstage1 asks: Ben you should come to the POCONOS (PA) i love your music...thank you for being so awesome
FresherKey in Onstage1 asks: Come back and do another chat sooooon
Heffa63086 in Onstage1 asks: How can one person be so melodic and so **** clever? If you're really Jewish, let me know...you can come to our Passover seder. See you in Central Park you genius, you!!!
BlamedZender23 in Onstage1 asks: hi ben,im from israel and you have a growing base fan here so come and visit some time
kas_652 in Onstage1 asks: ben stop by live oak florida!!!!!
allthestarsupinthesky in Onstage1 asks: Your music is a HUGE inspiration to me. thank you
mariahmmmariah in Onstage4 asks: i greatly admire you as a pianist, you amaze me in so many ways! i'm really excited to see you here in Stillwater, but i'm sad you won't have the concert to yourself! hey, i'm learning philosophy on the piano right now! it's awesome!
Silverst2 in Onstage1 asks: Ben, you rock! I loved the Newport RI concert...especially when you sang "bon bon jovi" instead of "jon bon jovi
REO_Supertramp in Onstage1 asks: Bon Jovi is my inspiriation, You are my Man.
caats19 in Onstage1 asks: San Antonio!! come to San Antonio!!
DishDiva says: And that is all the time we have for today.
DishDiva says: Thank for you for joining this event with Ben Folds.
DishDiva says: From all of us here at MSN Live-- Trish, Budd, Josie and myself, good night!